Here comes trouble......

[steveo9043]

^^^^^ bumblebee and camarogirl at hooters yesterday lol

[The SS]

^^^^^ bumblebee and camarogirl at hooters yesterday lol

And that's funny why?

[Altma]

And that's funny why?

You had a maple syrup chugging contest at Hooters? WTF? Why wasn't I invited??

[The SS]

You had a maple syrup chugging contest at Hooters? WTF? Why wasn't I invited??

If by maple syrup you mean $4 hurricanes YES we did. Consider yourself invited whenever I post something

[Altma]

If by maple syrup you mean $4 hurricanes YES we did. Consider yourself invited whenever I post something

Nice! -

*Changing the subject here* - You're a girl. But not a typical girl, because you have a Camaro, so try to imagine this scenario from a not Camarogirl perspective:

I want exhaust for my Camaro - I can afford it, not like it's an issue. I'm getting married here in like 2 months - fiancee knows I want it, however would rather I wait until after the wedding - Do I:

A: Buy it and tell her it's too late they already charged my card, and deal with the consequences.

B: Ask her if it would be cool to buy it so that she's at least in the loop. With the possibility that she's like just wait until after the wedding, and then I have to wait.

C: Explain it to her after I receive the box in the mail.

D: Try to hide the whole thing until I have it installed on my car and she's like "Why is it louder?".

E: Other (Explain)

[HumanWiki]

I want exhaust for my Camaro - I can afford it, not like it's an issue. I'm getting married here in like 2 months - fiancee knows I want it, however would rather I wait until after the wedding - Do I:

A: Buy it and tell her it's too late they already charged my card, and deal with the consequences.

C: Explain it to her after I receive the box in the mail.

D: Try to hide the whole thing until I have it installed on my car and she's like "Why is it louder?".

These are all wrong. You're starting a marriage. Don't start it on a sour note by lying/withholding.

[Toasty]

These are all wrong. You're starting a marriage. Don't start it on a sour note by lying/withholding.

X100000000

.. Ask her to get it for you as a wedding present

[Altma]

These are all wrong. You're starting a marriage. Don't start it on a sour note by lying/withholding.

Well it's not so much lying as just neglecting to tell her about it. Which isn't as bad as it seems with her. She does that too. Kinda just like a "Oh.. by the way I bought this" kinda thing.. I don't know if that makes sense. So don't get me all wrong here.

But I suppose I like Toasty's idea. Wedding gift indeed.

[KidKilowatt]

Pete had my car while I was on my honeymoon just saying technically its after your married

[The SS]

Nice! -

*Changing the subject here* - You're a girl. But not a typical girl, because you have a Camaro, so try to imagine this scenario from a not Camarogirl perspective:

I want exhaust for my Camaro - I can afford it, not like it's an issue. I'm getting married here in like 2 months - fiancee knows I want it, however would rather I wait until after the wedding - Do I:

A: Buy it and tell her it's too late they already charged my card, and deal with the consequences.

B: Ask her if it would be cool to buy it so that she's at least in the loop. With the possibility that she's like just wait until after the wedding, and then I have to wait.

C: Explain it to her after I receive the box in the mail.

D: Try to hide the whole thing until I have it installed on my car and she's like "Why is it louder?".

E: Other (Explain)

I have to agree w/Humanwiki. Don't start a life commitment on a bad note. I'm a golden rule kinda girl-meaning how would you feel if she did this to you.
My choice is B-the key is timing. Try to understand this is one of the most stressful times for her. Hence why some people get a wedding coordinator. Wait for the right moment then talk to her.

Sincerely,
Dear Della/Dear Abby-good luck

[HumanWiki]

Well it's not so much lying as just neglecting to tell her about it. Which isn't as bad as it seems with her. She does that too. Kinda just like a "Oh.. by the way I bought this" kinda thing.. I don't know if that makes sense. So don't get me all wrong here.

But I suppose I like Toasty's idea. Wedding gift indeed.

Guess one would have to be in the situation to understand her.. Reading your wording makes it seem that way.. And, it's not neglecting to tell her if she's already asked you to wait.. That would only be marginally viable if you hadn't already been aware of her request.

Her stating "hey, I kinda just bought this/that" is just fine.. and you're allowed to do that as well.. But, like I said, you're already of her desire for you to wait.. You hiding it intentionally would come across badly. I know Kim would be more than pissed off if I did that to her.

[Altma]

All good points. I really hate that I got this car because I want to do stuff to it to make it even better than it already is. My dodge Ram, I didn't care about modding it at all.

[HumanWiki]

All good points. I really hate that I got this car because I want to do stuff to it to make it even better than it already is. My dodge Ram, I didn't care about modding it at all.

Just be honest with each other and respect each other's thoughts on things as best as possible..

Trust me.. you don't want to be married to someone that hates cars and thinks their sole purpose is transit... --- don't ask me how I know

[Toasty]

All good points. I really hate that I got this car because I want to do stuff to it to make it even better than it already is. My dodge Ram, I didn't care about modding it at all.

I find mods are easier to get approved if I discuss options with her and find out what she likes

[Altma]

Just be honest with each other and respect each other's thoughts on things as best as possible..

Trust me.. you don't want to be married to someone that hates cars and thinks their sole purpose is transit... --- don't ask me how I know

Yeah - She doesn't really get the whole "Mod your car" idea. But she was watching clips of exhaust vids I was watching on YouTube and saying which ones she liked and didn't like, so there's still hope. - I'll make a true car lover out of her yet!